YOUR FUTURE’S SECRET

WHAT YOU DO NOW, IN YOUR DAILY ROUTINE,
HOLDS THE SECRET OF YOUR FUTURE.
YOUR DEDICATION TOWARDS THAT FUTURE WILL
DEFINE YOUR ACHIEVEMENTS.

~ ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Writer, Author, Storyteller

I WONDER…

This way…

A new beginning…Is silver the new look?

Over the past several months, since the launch of my published book, SPARKS OF JOY, SEIZE THE MOMENT; I have met multiple people who have congratulated me and were happy for me that I was bold, if not daring enough, to write a book. And not just that, but to publish it and travel to many parts of the nation to promote it.

Many of them have expressed their thoughts that they wished they could do like what I did. Some of them are talented in the area of interest they wish to express themselves with.

It is quite unfortunate though the world and media says unabashedly that you can do anything you set your heart to; people seem to read in between the lines that in reality, you can’t. They just wish they had it like me.

For most of my life, people never believed that I was capable enough to do the things I wanted to do – pursue all that I sort out to do. When I went ahead and did that that I set out to do (though they may seem trivial to world go-getters, but gigantic to ordinary folk like me); they questioned how I had the gumption, or even the audacity to press ahead with my plans. They said I shouldn’t even try because I couldn’t do it and wouldn’t have the stamina to see through what I set out to do.

There was only one teensy-tiny problem. I think I didn’t know the meaning of the words or phrases like, “don’t”, “don’t even try”, “it isn’t worth it”. Maybe, I was stubborn? I don’t want to delve too deeply into it.

Back to “a new beginning”. As I am an advocate, a believer if you may; of the moment; where the future is… believe it or not, just a moment away. When it comes, it is the present. When it passes by, it is the past. So, every moment in the future provides us with a new beginning.

We have been made to think and believe that a moment is faster than a split second, that we really cannot do anything about it and in that moment. Time is relative. What if treat time well…treat each moment royally, that each moment is a year long; we’d probably sit up, take time of the time it presents and do something about it.

So, based on today’s “logical” understanding of the length of time each moment has, we now, would present ourselves to time differently. We don’t take time for granted, and thus view time…view life from a different perspective. We began to enjoy life itself, and all that it has to offer.

A new beginning.
It can be only that, each moment.
Don’t just be the bristles of a paintbrush applying colours to a canvas with different strokes.
Be the writer, painter, storyteller; guiding the paintbrush on the canvas with the choices of colours applied to pictures created by minds of artists.
Be the one helping people to live their own lives by being there and being you. That is a gift.

And that…

CHANGE YOUR STORY

HARD TO BELIEVE, PERHAPS…BUT IT’S TRUE –
YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE YOUR STORY. DON’T JUST LET IT SLIDE.

ADD SUCCESS –
YOU HAVE THE CHOICE BETWEEN SLOW SUCCESS AND FAST SUCCESS.
SLOW  SUCCESS BUILDS CHARACTER.
FAST SUCCESS BUILDS EGO.

IN THE END, SEEK RESPECT. IT LAST LONGER.

CHANGE YOUR STORY.
BUILD CHARACTER.
EARN RESPECT.

ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Writer, Author, Storyteller

CHASE AFTER YOUR DREAM OR ACHIEVE IT. WHICH IS BETTER?

YOU’VE ACHIEVED YOUR DREAM!

Yay! Woohoo! Your da man! (or girl / woman). Congratulations are in order. Multitudes of congratulation messages, lunches, dinners, talks on how you did it, pats on your back…..

Warning: Achieving your dream can be scary. It is easier to chase after your dream than to achieve it.

When you had a dream, you went after it. Vision / mission. Goals with little steps… little victories… growing to big goals and victories… Long work days with possible sleepless nights…Plan A…if it does not work by a certain time, Plan B kicks on…and so on. You are constantly on the go.

You go for motivational talks and seminars to pump your adrenaline to “super levels”.

Here, I am a firm believer that motivation is
1% or less from other people (motivational speakers and seminars), things or surroundings; and
99% from within us.

Identify that 99% and work on it.

until you reached destination : DREAM Achievement. You did it!

The scary part for most dream achievers is what happens after that? What’s next?

You’re on top now. Where do you go from here?

YOUR GOALS HAVE TO EXCITE YOU

JANUARY – ONE MONTH HAS GONE.
HOW ARE YOU DOING WITH YOUR GOALS?

IF THE INDICATOR OF PROGRESS HAS NOT MOVED OR HAS MOVED JUST A LITTLE;
YOU HAVE TO BE MORE VIGILANT WITH IT.

ONE REASON WHY PEOPLE RESIST CHANGE IS BECAUSE THEY FOCUS ON WHAT THEY HAVE TO GIVE UP AND CLING ON TO THAT, INSTEAD OF WHAT THEY HAVE TO GAIN.

YOUR GOALS HAVE TO EXCITE YOU, SO MUCH SO THAT THEY ARE IN FRONT OF YOU ALL THE TIME. THEY HAVE TO SCARE YOU OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE.

~ ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Writer, Author, Storyteller

THE ROAD TO P.D

For as long as I can remember, the Batik Influencer kept turning on her charm to influence me to take her to the beach. And always, there was something that always seemed to clash with the dates we wanted to go; which weren’t many.

Then, Laura went to Port Dickson (P. D.) (1) with her friend for a wedding. And stayed for the night. And went to the beach the next morning. And spent some time there.

That set Jeannie’s sights to go the very next weekend, which is this weekend, the Chinese New Year hols. Laura booked us in last Tuesday….or was it Wednesday? Anyway, we were set.

Our Sunday itenary was to go for the 8.30am mass at St. Thomas More Church, then go for breakfast somewhere nearby and start our journey to P. D. at 11.00am.

Sunday (that is today), came. We went for the 8.30am. mass at St. Thomas More church. Check☑️I found mass quite entertaining… the Music Ministry…let’s just leave it at that.

We passed by a couple of Indian restaurants with the hope of having roti canai for breakfast. They were closed. On the second day of Chinese New Year! Can you beat that? One would think that they would capitalislze on all the Chinese coffee shops, kopitiams and restaurants that are closed because of the lunar holidays.

Then, we heard bagpipes being played in the distant background…no, our car is Japanese, not Scots. And the bagpipes…imaginary, as we decided on McD’s – reliable for being open everyday.

Jeannie had a “hash brown wrap”, something new to me,

We had a quick breakfast… The Batik Influencer ordered a “hash brown wrap” and iced coffee and I; a sausage with egg McMuffin and iced coffee. It was a quick breakfast. I wanted to go back home for a short rest before going on the fairly long drive. We anticipated that we were going to have more than our fair share of the blazing sun. To give some perspective, P. D. is closer to the earth’s equator than Subang Jaya (2). Hence, it definitely was going to be much hotter in weather temperature.

We started our journey at noon. As we got on the Seremban (3) highway intersection from the highway route that we got on from the Toll plaza, we got (3 “got” [s] ) smack into the usual jam at Nilai. It seems perpetual as any time of the day is a crawl. Got past that jam about half hour later and it was a breeze drive all the way for about 5 minutes.

Now, it was the Seremban traffic crawl heading down South, for as far as we could see. For those heading to Johore (4) and Singapore, you have my sympathy.

As we turned off to the P. D. highway, there were pockets of jams, all a few minutes each. Jeannie insisted we used Google maps and I said I knew the way. However, Google Maps showed the way that was shorter, at least on Google Maps itself. I decided to follow the electronic guide. We didn’t know what was in store for us next.

We followed the directions shown by Google Maps. It took us into one of the small Malay kampungs (villages in English). We went through some very narrow roads (more like dirt tracks) and very tight and bumpy turns. The map showed the sea was so close by.

I kept turning to look at the back seat to see if we picked up some chickens and goats. The movie, “SHADOWS IN THE SUN” was still very fresh on my mind where Welson Parrish drove and crashed the publisher’s car into a chicken coup.

We managed to get out of there without picking up any chickens or goats. If we had gone the way I knew, we could have avoided this “scenic” route.

Quite a long check-in line. We got our room pretty quick.
Welcome to Corus.
In a scarecrow straw hat, caught me at work.

The Batik Influencer said, at least now, I had a story to tell. Possible title, “HATTED WRITER’ S FEATHER IN THE HAT”.

A view from our room.

We’ve checked into our room. I chose to pen this down, while Jeannie does some office work. We’re waiting for the sun to go to the other side of the equator, at least a little bit, when the temperature outdoors will be cooler before venturing to the outdoors, itself; feeling the white sand and the wet sands of the beach, soaking in (that should be from the wetness of the seas of the Straits of Malacca) the many colours and hues of the sky, the sun and the many sounds of humans, enjoying the simple pleasures of life – playing on the beach and in the seas.

In the meantime, let’s make light and easy plans for galavnating around P. D..

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This article would have been published earlier on in the evening, if not for it getting lost somewhere in the back office. I was going to launch it at the same time as the one just before this that was published. I had to seek my daughter, Laura’s help; to try and recover the article.

There must have been a clash of two articles because this which I wanted to publish as I had already seen the final draft, was launched at the same time as the previous article which meant both articles would have been published.

Long story short; I managed to retrieve it from another sector, had to modify it slightly and re-add the pictures in

NOTES:

1. P. D. (Port Dickson) /is a seaside town, located in the state of Negeri Sembilan.

2. Subang Jaya is a city in the state of Selangor, Malaysia.

3. Seremban is a city in the southern state of Negri Sembilan, Malaysia.

4. Johore is the southern most state of Malaysia.