THE TWO ALANs, SPARKING WITH JOY, SEIZING THE MOMENT AND EURASIAN FOOD

It was a day long adventure at our booth F1. 08 in Amcorp Mall.

Our, that is, my wife Jeannie’s, and my day; was busy meeting our friends and family, while we were there. We made load of new friends, while meeting with old friends and customers, too.

One of the (my) “old” friends that came by was ex-La Salle School Klang boy, Ronald Gomes. He is my junior, and was in my brother, Terence’s class/ year.

He brought over a big packet of muruku which he bought from the Ipoh Muruku guy who had a booth on the same floor as us.

We chatted for a while. He proudly don’s a head of pure white hair. He said it’s natural, not bleached. He left soon after.

“Sultans of Swing” by Dire Straits is being Bluetooth-ed to the Marshall Willen 2 speaker, while I pen (more like thumb-type on my Samsung Galaxy Fold 5) this essay.

We packed up and closed our booth slightly earlier so that we could head back home, freshen up to come out for an invited dinner.

Dinner was hosted by Christopher and Evelina Nelliah, in honour of Evelina’s birthday.

We met at a little cosy restaurant, named “kumi.”; with the period (American) or full stop (British) after it. Located somewhere in Damansara Heights, an upmarket housing neighbourhood, it “sat” somewhere in between what looked like a single row of shops. On a Saturday evening, it was quiet.

Brendan, Evelina’s & Christopher’s son was there. So was Dato Ronald Gomes and his wife, Datin Debbie Gomes. Allen Jolly Sundar was there, too. It was great seeing him after a long time; the last time being lunch at his condo somewhere in the south of Kay El (also known as K.L. to the less “hip” folk or Kuala Lumpur to those who rather be formal). A newcomer to this usual group of ours, this being the first meet up after many, many years, was Kenneth Gomes. Kenneth and the rest of us, with the exception of Allen; are related – our grandfathers (my mother’s father) were brothers.

It looked like Christopher had arranged for the whole restaurant to be for us on that evening, as we were the only ones there. From the bits of information gathered, this place usually has a crowded crowd (? Is there a time when a crowd is not crowded? 🤔) The quiet of the restaurant was really good. It allowed us space to relax, unwind and enjoy the company).

It was good re-connecting with Kenneth, our families connecting from our grandfathers. The family history that we talked about was a span covering about 50 years, which itself, is a pretty vast period.

The food was all good. Very authentic Malaccan Portuguese Eurasian. I had to be specific as this restaurant prides itself in its home cuisine. Here, the emphasis is on “home” besides the “Malaccan Portuguese Eurasian” because the ingredients, spices and whatever else which goes into each dish, is prided to be balanced, meaning that you will get the same level of goodness, each time, every time.

We were met by restaurant co-owner, Chef Rueben Moissinac, who came to chat a bit with us, especially Christopher. Rueben has a history behind him with regards to the dishes kumi. offers and the differentiating factor of preparing these dishes.

We had a slice of suggee icing birthday cake, after singing three verses of “Happy Birthday”. The cake was made by a relative of the restaurant owner. I thought Allen, more fondly referred to as “Jolly” (his middle name); was going to sing an Alleycats number. He is an awesome singer. Don’t let him tell you otherwise.

Allen also acquired a copy of my book, SPARKS OF JOY – SEIZE THE MOMENT. First thing he asked, “is he in the book?” Haha. Allen has got a great sense of humour.

Like all evenings, this one came to a close. As we stepped outside the restaurant, another conversation was started up in two groups, the ladies on one side and the guys in another; like as though we did not have enough to say in the restaurant.

When in Damansara Heights or around these parts and you want to eat; drop in at kumi. Kumi means “eat” in Kristang. Kristang is generally spoken in the Malacca Portuguese restaurant.

Allen, receiving his just acquired copy of SPARKS OF JOY – SEIZE THE MOMENT.

“The moment comes. The moment goes. Enjoy every moment.”

Seated: Birthday girl Evelina and Brendan.
Standing left to Right: Allen; yours truly, Alan😉; Datin Debbie; Jeannie, the Batik Influencer; Christopher, Kenneth and Dato Ronald.

A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE

The distinct shrilling voices of the Bee Gees can be heard softly, filling a tiny space of the room’s overall quiet, singing “More Than A Woman”.

The other sounds include the whirling of the ceiling fan (It was advertised as “extra quiet”.  I daren’t think what it would be like to be “normal noisy”. )  and the whirling of 6 tiny fans from the computer laptop cooling pad.

“Daren’t” – that’s an English word that has not been used in a long time. I think the last time I heard that word used was when I was in school, over 40 years ago. If my memory serves me well, it was used quite often by my Standard Four class teacher, the late Mrs. Mun (Bless her soul).

Is it just me or is each day that goes by seems drastically shorter than a year ago. Here, shorter does not mean a few milliseconds or even a minute. It just feels like I am not getting enough hours in a day.

If I break down my average work day, it would be something like this:
6 hours in traffic on roads
4 hours sleep
3 hours brisk walks / exercise
3 hours replying emails, / social media / reading
1 hour miscellaneous
17 hours total, leaving me with only 7 hours to work. During these 7 hours, I have multiple (I would have preferred using the word “loads” as it emphasizes the intensity. However [instead of “but”], “multiple” is a word that people seem to understand more, from what I gather).

As I am about to put my fingers to keyboard typing, converting the clickety-clackety sounds that the individual lettered keys make as they are thumped upon on the mechanical keyboard, making and forming words that mysteriously appear on the 24-inch monitor screen, I become hungry. I start thinking of what to eat. Procrastination? You think? Maybe…

When  the words come, they just come, and there’s no stopping. And if they aren’t there, they just aren’t there. So, I usually like moving around a lot, getting a different view of things, even for a fleeting moment. Unlike some people who get distracted from what they are doing if they move onto something else, I get refreshed. Perhaps, it is the “dreamer” in me.

This is an odd-shaped table. The plate looks un-uniformed in shape, too. A different perspective perhaps? Is this the whole picture? Picture taken using my Samsung S23 Ultra

On a recent coffee visit to Good Ground Bakery, I was in one of those “dreamer” moods. I ordered an iced Americano and a scone with a side of butter and strawberry jam from Joanne, the one whose smile puts the twinkle in stars in the sky. I chose a table at the corner near the entrance. I pulled out my Samsung Galaxy Z Fold 5 512GB (that’s quite a mouthful) and started to continue working on one of my articles. “Started to continue?” Does not seem to make much sense.

In this context, it does. It means that I started working on an article that I had not completed yet.

As I sat there, absorbing the moments in time that was going by, I thought to myself that it sure would be a whole lot more complicating if we had a fisheye or 360º view of life. Which would be the start and which would be the end of each scene? I am trying to view the scene based on what we generally understand, where each snapshot of a scene or a story has a beginning and an end.

What if instead, we were just there, like showing up in a scene. No explanations…It is still the beginning from the context of at the point we showed up. Gosh! I can’t begin to imagine what it was like when John Lennon wrote his timeless song, “IMAGINE”. Was his imagination on “free flow” mode, just like mine is now?

This is the whole picture – a panoramic view. This was taken on one of my many visits to Good Ground Bakery for coffee and scones.