NOT AS YOUNG, SLIGHTLY OLDER THAN BEFORE

In the late 1970s, at one of the Christmas gatherings, when delicious super tender, hot and spicy beef rendang (1) was served, I thought that it would go well with chocolate. As it was the Christmas season, with lots of chocolate going around, I decided to try the combination of eating chocolate with beef rendang. Unusual combination of food – yes. I thought it was out of this world. It literally was! However, I don’t believe I went for that combination of a chocolatey, hot spicy beef rendang again. I wonder why…💭🤔Maybe, at that time I was slightly younger. Now, I am slightly older.

Many (you can’t use the word “multiple” here…it doesn’t sound like it will gel in this sentence) may ask me, “Why is being younger better than being older?” Good question. The perception could be is that when you are younger, you dare to do more things, that is walk the journey and then “connect the dots; not connect the dots first, then move along the connected dots”.

Maybe so. It could be because the young are brash and do things without giving it much thought. Like they would dare go bungee jumping, even though the other end of the cable he or she is attached to, is not secured to anything. I don’t know.

When my wife, Jeannie and I, first went to the U.S., yes United States of America, not the local U.S. (Ulu Selangor) (2); we had to do the touristy thing: We visited Disneyland at Anaheim. We stayed in Hollywood, at a hotel behind Holiday Inn. It kind of looked that we were staying at the Holiday Inn at that time, but we weren’t 😀. We caught a hotel shuttle that took us to Disneyland, Anaheim. I remember passing Knott’s Berry Farm, which was another theme park, that was close by Disneyland.

As we passed the theme park to get to Disneyland; I thought the name of the theme park was “GUTS”. If it wasn’t, it should have been named that. It was actually the Knott’s (for knotted guts after you’ve been on one or more [if you can take on more than just one ride. you have to be stark-raving mad!]) Berry Farm (a misleading name. You ain’t gonna find or pick berries there). Their rides definitely were not meant for the weak hearts a.k.a. normal people. And the people that went on these rides – they definitely got their thrills (terkejut [3]) and spills. We’ve got to give them credit.

From the road as we passed “the farm”, we could see the “Supreme Scream” ride I think, which had just opened a couple of days earlier. We could also see the Boomerang. Jeannie and I must have been way too young (underage, perhaps?) because we were not going to take one of those rides; not on your nellie. That meant that we were normal people.

What do normal people do? They go to Disneyland. Our first “ride” as we got inside Disneyland, was when we hopped (not literally, you know what I mean) on an open bus that that took us around the theme park. We had a barber shop quartet, dressed in colourful outfits, wearing perfectly round panama-style hats, stand on the steps at the back of the bus; and sing and entertain us, the passengers all along the route. We used Disneyland money to pay for things. We smiled and laughed a lot. We went back home smiling and happy, not scared out of our wits.

A barbershop quartet.

Now, that we are not as young as we used to be, which is slightly older than before; we tend to think or map all our moves out, leaving nothing to chance unless its Magnum, Toto or 1+3D (4) (for some people. The thrilling anticipation as the results come out…). I wonder why? All our moves are calculated, more or less. More more than less.

However….however, the younger will act on instinct…with the help of Google and the “in-thing” of today, Artificial Intelligence or ChatGBT. They are faster off the mark… they want quicker results…and get them. If the results aren’t up to their mark, them make adjustments and keep going. They seem to have topography of their ideas.

In the meantime, us that are slightly, just slightly older than the younger…we will go for coffee and scones.😋😉😁

result of veering off…

NOTES:
1. Beef Rendang is a Malaysian curry. It is the curry of all curries, mouth-watering delicious, all the time. It is a dry curry which means it is with very little or no gravy. The beef is ridiculously tender.
2. Ulu Selangor is a district in the state of Selangor, Malaysia.
3. Terkejut is a Bahasa Malaysia word for “shocked”
4. These are “games of chance”.

He found his thrills… The great Fats Domino, “Blueberry Hill”

AN AFTERNOON AT STEEL RIVER

2nd Edition, May 2nd, 2024. 8.20pm

It was about 3.30am when I decided to hit the sack or turn in. It was a good evening, where I managed to publish an article and get some other work done. It did not take too long for me to fall off sleep.

I was up bright and early in the morning at 9.00am. It was a public holiday today, celebrating Labour Day. My cousin Chris, and his wife Evelina; was coming to pick Jeannie and I up at 10.30am, and together, we were going over to their friend, Allen’s place. Chris introduced Jeannie and I to Allen when we met at Grand City Restaurant in P.J. (1) a few months ago.

Traffic was quite smooth and after multiple x multiple turns, we arrived. I was trying to get my bearings to see exactly where we were in K.L.. (2) All I knew was that we were somewhere in Sungai Besi. (3) “Sungai Besi” is Bahasa Malaysia for “Steel River”.

It was good to meet with him again. His beautiful condo was definitely a place to unwind, chill and relax. Allen saw to it that it had all the trappings of comfort. In it, included a very large maintenance free, wall mounted aquarium. What else could one ask more of? The aquarium was his tv.😁

We weren’t there for very long as we had to leave, and take a short walk to a cafe for lunch by following Allen. A friend of his was joining us there.

As we arrived at the cafe, so did his friend, too. Introductions were made. Sidney is a very close friend and former La Salle School, P.J. classmate of Allen’s.

The cafe was Called, “Memorie”; with it’s tagline, “Taste of Eurasian”. That was going to be interesting.

The red door entrance. The first thing we noticed about this cafe / restaurant is that it is quite spacious. No knocking of elbows when you want to cut through the food with a knife and fork. Doesn’t it look Eurasiany? Very pleasant set-up.

We sat right inside, which was the front of a ship. No kidding. Jeannie said, we could stand in front of the ship and pretend to fly, like in the film, “Titanic”. Not to mention, sing the song, “I Believe I Can Fly”. Doesn’t sound quite right. I think it’s, “My Heart Will Go On”. Must be because I am not quite a fan of Celine.

Sitting on “deck”, in the front of the ship. Not sure who was going to sing, “My Heart Will Go On”. It is obvious from the wide spread of food on the table, our hearts were going to go on.

Jeannie and Evelina did most of the food ordering. I ordered the Shepperd’s Pie. Allen ordered a green curry noodle (I think) dish, which did not have any shrimp ingredient – just the way he liked it.

Clockwise,7 o’clock, The two “Alans” sitting together: Allen junior; Alan (Senior), also known as the Hatted Writer; Jeannie, Evelina (Christopher’s wife); Christopher and Sidney.
Clockwise,7 o’clock, The two “Alans” sitting together: Allen junior; Alan (Senior), also known as the Hatted Writer; Jeannie, Evelina (Christopher’s wife); Christopher and Sidney.

The food arrived quite fast. It not only looked good, it tasted good as well. The Shepperd’s Pie came with some french fries, some leafy stuff and half a cherry tomato. Yes, half a cherry tomato. So, the focus zoomed in on half a cherry tomato instead of the whole dish. That fact stuck in my mind. The Shepperd’s Pie had the usual mashed potato baked as atop layer of the pie. The pie’s filling was beef. I thought it would come with minced beef. Instead it came withy chunky pieces. Tasted good. In fact, all the dishes were good.

My contribution towards ordering of the food. This is Shepperd’s Pie. Looks good. Notice the half the cherry tomato? Decoration purposes (Only?).

There was lots, o.k., o.k., “multiple” stories told of school days and what they did. I had a little bit to share of La Salle P.J. School days as I studied there when I was in Standard One through Standard Three (Year 1 to Year 3 in “today’s terminology). I still remember when my Standard One class teacher, Mrs. Lee, came to our house one day to complain (share her concern), that I was slow in class. I didn’t think of myself as slow. I just did not want to waste time on trivial matters like Year 1 school work. I had big dreams and I was making plans on how to achieve them.💭😏

The wide array of Eurasian food ordered. Besides my ordering contribution of the Shepperd’s Pie, there was Devil (or is it Debil? Maybe, this is A.I.’s [Artificial Intelligence] way of spelling it, I don’t know) curry (Who in their right mind would come to a Eurasian restaurant and not order this primary dish?), the other two dishes were fish / seafood based). The egg omelet dish had not been served yet.

We adjourned back to Allen’s condo for coffee for some of us, and the hard stuff for the others. Sidney shared a lot about playing squash on wide courts, as he was still playing at tournaments “at his age”. I don’t quite using “at his age”, “at our age”, etc; as it is meant to indicate that we are suppose to slow our pace down, or we can’t do this or that anymore. So, here, when “at his age” is mentioned, it is meant to indicate that he plays in the “Masters” – indicating the seniors’ age group.

The view from the condo was quite breathtaking. It was slightly hazy. We were told that the night view can be spectacular. Looking at the picture below, you can see that construction for high rise buildings are still on the go.

By the time we left, it was half four, or half past four, or 4.30pm in the afternoon for some, and evening for others. We all thanked Allen, who was the perfect host. He invited us to go over again soon for another good “session” like the one we just had.

On our way back, we were met with sputters of rain along the way, nothing much. We reached home at about 5 on the hour. I thought I’d go on my 10km walk. However, the skies thunders gathered and before long, the rain followed.,

The view from Allen’s condo on the 11th floor. Menara Merdeka 118, the world’s second tallest building; can be seen on the far left. The KL Tower and Petronas Twin Towers, both amongst the tallest buildings in the world, can be seen from the left, just after the Menara Merdeka 118. Watching the vehicles go by, minus the pollution and noise from them; can be quite therapeutic.

Addendum (I wonder if we can call it this. By jove, we can. 😁): May 2nd, 2024; 8.20pm:
Allen added that I missed out on mentioning us reminiscing on some of the Malay hits of the ’70s and ’80s by “Freddie & the Flintstones”, “Search”, “Alleycats” and many more. Oh yes, and Allen is quite the singer and dancer: he’s a good singer, he’s nimble and he’s got the moves.

NOTES:
1. Petaling Jaya or P.J. as it is more commonly referred as, is a city in the state of Selangor, Malaysia.
2. K.L. or Kuala Lumpur, is the capital of Malaysia.
3. Sungai Besi is Bahasa Malaysia, which literally translates to “Steel River”. It was a historical mining town with many heavy industries such as steelworks, waste steel plants and other steel industries. Sungei Besi Tin Mine site was the largest and deepest open cast alluvial tin mine in the world and in Malaysia. The town has since developed from a large area of village settlements. wikipedia

WHAT MATTER MOSTS

EVERYONE’S TIME IS LIMITED. USE IT WISELY.

SOMETIMES, LIFE DOES NOT GIVE YOU WHAT YOU WANT. WHAT MATTERS MOST IS TO FOCUS ON WHAT MATTERS MOST.

WHEN YOU ARE POSITIVE IN YOUR OUTLOOK, YOU WON’T HAVE TIME FOR THINGS THAT AREN’T.
YOU WILL SEE OPPORTUNITIES INSTEAD OF OBSTACLES.

STRIVE TO LIVE IN THE MOST POSSIBLE AND JOYFUL WAY POSSIBLE EVERY DAY. IT ALWAYS SEEMS IMPOSSIBLE UNTIL ITS DONE.

~ ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Writer, Author, Storyteller

A LEADER

YOU ARE A LEADER
IF
YOUR ACTIONS INSPIRE OTHERS TO
DREAM MORE, LEARN MORE, DO MORE AND BECOME MORE.

THERE IS TOO MUCH NEGATIVITY IN THE WORLD.
AS A LEADER, YOU HAVE TO DO YOUR BEST TO MAKE SURE YOU AREN’T CONTRIBUTING TO IT.

OFTEN AS A LEADER, YOU WALK ALONE;
THAN WITH A CROWD GOING IN THE WRONG DIRECTION.

~ ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Writer, Author, Storyteller

Brittany Rust

NOTE TO SELF… BE THANKFUL

NOTE TO SELF…

THINK BIGGER.

DO NOT BE UPSET BY ALL THE THINGS THAT HAVE GONE WRONG AND ALL THE THINGS THAT ARE WRONG.

LIFE CHANGES BECAUSE YOU MADE THE DECISION TO CHANGE IT.
BE THE LIGHT THAT SOMEONE NEEDS.

BE THANKFUL FOR ALL THE THINGS THAT ARE RIGHT.

~ ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Writer, Author, Storyteller

You can. Empowering note to self.

DECIDE TO BE AMAZING

IF YOU ARE ALWAYS TRYING TO BE NORMAL, YOU MAY NOT BE ABLE TO CHANGE ANYTHING WHEN IT IS FACED.

YOU WILL NEVER KNOW HOW AMAZING YOU CAN BE UNTIL YOU DECIDE TO FACE CHALLENGES. YOU CAN OVERCOME ANYTHING AND MOVE FORWARD.

~ ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Writer, Author, Storyteller

IN THE FACE OF CHALLENGES

NEVER BEG SOMEONE TO BE IN YOUR LIFE.
IF YOU TEXT, CALL, VISIT AND STILL GET IGNORED,
JUST WALK AWAY.
IT’S CALLED SELF-RESPECT.

IT’S NOT EASY, YES. WE DON’T GROW WHEN THINGS ARE EASY; WE GROW IN THE FACE OF CHALLENGES.

THINGS TURN OUT THE BEST FOR PEOPLE
WHO ALWAYS MAKE THE BEST OF THE WAY THINGS TURN OUT.

~ ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Writer, Author, Storyteller

BELIEVING IS

BELIEVING IS NOT HAVING ONE FOOT IN, AND THE OTHER ONE OUT FOR THE “JUST IN CASE”.

BELIEVING IS HAVING BOTH FEET IN, HAVING THE CONFIDENCE THAT EVERYTHING WILL BE PERFECT!

~ ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Writer, Author, Storyteller

ONE WHO SEES

DON’T LIMIT YOUR CHALLENGES. A PESSIMIST IS ONE WHO SEES THE DIFFICULTY IN EVERY OPPORTUNITY.

CHALLENGE YOUR LIMITS. AN OPTIMIST IS ONE WHO SEES THE OPPORTUNITY IN EVERY DIFFICULTY.

~ ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Author, Writer, Storyteller

Inc

IT’S BETWEEN YOU AND YOU.

YOU HAVE TO HAVE A DREAM SO THAT YOU HAVE A REASON TO GET UP IN THE MORNING. AS SIMPLE AS THAT.

YES, YOU HAVE TO GET UP. THAT’S PROGRESS. YOU DON’T GROW WHEN YOU’RE COMFORTABLE.

YES, IT’S HARD WORK. YOUR PATH IS HARDER BECAUSE YOUR CALLING IS HIGHER. THE HARDER YOU WORK FOR SOMETHING, THE GREATER YOU WILL FEEL WHEN YOU ACHIEVE IT. NOBODY CAN JUDGE OR KEEP SCORE OF YOUR EFFORT. IT’S BETWEEN YOU AND YOU.

~ ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Writer, Author, Storyteller