BE THANKFUL FOR TODAY

BE THANKFUL FOR TODAY AS IT OFFERS NEW OPPORTUNITIES.

BE GRATEFUL FOR ALL THE BLESSINGS YOU HAVE RECEIVED, ARE RECEIVING AND ARE GOING TO RECEIVE.

IN THE NEW “TODAY”, YOUR ENTIRE LIFE COULD CHANGE, AN AMAZING JOURNEY WAITING TO BEGIN.

ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Writer, Author, Storyteller

Kristin Saatzer

THE LITTLE SPACE

I AM NOT GOING TO OVER-THINK FOR ANSWERS.

I DON’T HAVE THE ANSWERS TO EVERYTHING.
LIKE WHY IS CATASTROPHE HAPPENING EVERYWHERE, ESPECIALLY THE MANMADE ONES,
AND YET WE SAY,
THE WORLD IS A BEAUTIFUL PLACE TO BE IN.

I KNOW THAT I CAN’T CONTROL EVERYTHING.
I JUST HAVE TO LET MOST OF IT BE AS IT IS.

THIS I DO KNOW:
I WILL MAKE A CONSCIOUS EFFORT TO MAKE
THE LITTLE SPACE
THAT I OCCUPY ON PLANET EARTH
AS HAPPY AND AS PLEASANT AS POSSIBLE,
FOR THE PEOPLE AROUND ME.
THAT MAKES ME HAPPY.

~ ALAN IAN ATKINSON
Writer, Author, Storyteller

HIGHEST APPROVAL

Me, with my 93-year young, going on 94-year young dad.

He said, “You look good. Keep it permanent.” – Comments / statements from my dad.

Jeannie and I visited with my mum and dad yesterday. One of the new moments we brought to greet them was my new hair colour, which my hairstylist, Sam; did for me.

I was kind of expecting a spike in dad’s & mum’s Blood Pressure readings when they saw my hair colour.

My mum’s reaction was “What’s the fuss about?” Luckily, she still recognised me.😁😂 My mum was / is(?) generally quite conservative.

My dad was a military man. In his hay day, everything was done with military function style. My brothers and I had the same type clothes, shoes, haircuts, etc. A few weeks before Christmas, each year; we had Mr Magoo (1); come over to our house, take clothes measurements for my three brothers (yes, young [still is] Malcolm included) and myself; to make new clothes for us. Same shirts and trouser slacks. Style / fashion: my father’s choice.

“Mr. Magoo” usually known by his real name, “Wing San” (if I got that right); was an old (and I mean really old) Chinese tailor who wore thick magnifying glasses for spectacles, that made his eyeballs look very large and bulging. My brothers and I worried about his measurement taking because of his eyesight. He always had a measuring tape hung around his neck (like all tailors). He’d come with two cloth material samples – 1 for the shirt and 1 for the trousers. Which meant our choice, which actually was dad’s choice, was limited to the samples Mr. Magoo brought.

To be fair, looking at him, he was Mr. Magoo. And he looked like he could be bullied…like Mr. Magoo. But this guy was 1 tough nut… and he knew his stuff.

My sister, Jennifer; somehow, escaped the regimented style fashion. The four boys got the same shoes and haircuts, too.

The late Uncle Ernie Freeman, and his wife; helped influence dad to relax with military style of doing things. This included flaring the trouser bottoms a bit…then became wider as Aunty Val (Surin) and the late Uncle Jeffrey (Surin, Aunty Val’s husband) would tell us, “do first” and see if it will get past dad’s attention. All that is now 50 year old history.

Over the years, especially in the more recent ones, dad has supported us, all the members of our family in all we do. He will give his views and suggestions and supports our decisions. When I wanted to publish my book, SPARKS OF JOY – SEIZE THE MOMENT (now published); he said, “Go ahead and publish it. You are a good writer”.

His is the story – the first chapter of the book. As I read that chapter, his chapter; I am glad I wrote it. Get a copy of the book to know what is in the first chapter.

Both, mum and he were fiercely independent people, right up to fairly recently. Now, they have to depend on aids .

This is how it is, I guess, when people get older. They need to be cared for, not out of pity. They don’t want your pity. They don’t want your probable condescending views.

Elderly people want to be treated like people. They, like you and me; are social beings. They need to interact with other people.

So, yeah; I still update dad and mum with the things we do. Granted, they may not be up to specs with the high, break-neck speed of today’s everyday living. Do I need their approval? No. But including senior citizens in your thought process before your decision making, means they are not forgotten. It means they are respected.

I still remember what my late grandmother told me over 40 years ago, “Slow, slow, catch monkey”. She was already my grandmother then (grey hair and stuff like that). She knew what she was talking about.

“Keep it permanent” – that’s what dad said. I can gel with that.

IT’S EVERYBODY’S BIRTHDAY TODAY!

Today is my birthday. It is the Batik Influencer’s, Joey’s, Chen Yao’s, Joanne’s, Sarah’s, Kenny’s, Hannah’s, Michelle’s, Ray’s… birthday, too.

Happy Birthday, everyone!

The seventh day of Chinese New Year is also known as 人日 (renri), or “yan yat” in Cantonese (literally translates to “human day“) or “ren qi” in Mandarin. It is supposed to be everyone’s birthday today, so everyone grows one year older and wiser on this day.

Have fun!

THE MAGIC ROPE

It was morning, at around 10.00 o’clock. The forest was a hive of activity, just like any other day.

The sky, peeping through the leaves and branches of the tall trees that made up the forest, was a bright blue.

The sun started rising in the east in the wee hours, just like how it did, every morning. By this time of the day, it was pretty high up in the sky, its rays, dodging the same leaves and branches of the tall trees that the bright blue sky did. It provided light to the forest that otherwise would have kept the forest dark and perhaps, gloomy. In fact. one could see the countless straight lines of rays, reaching the ground. Looking at them, you could imagine them dancing, – line dancing.

Somewhere, deep in this forest, there was a rope, about 10 meters in length, latched on to a sort of wooden peg which was embedded in the ground. The rope had a name – Ropey, so did the wooden peg – Constantinople. Ropey had the gift of the gab. From the time the sun rises each day, to the time it sets; Ropey would be chatting. He was the Mister Know-it-all. While all the animals and other living things of the forest could escape the constant chatting, one could throw in “boasting” as a description for good measure; Constantinople was stuck with him and had to endure the chattering of Ropey.

Makizama was taking a walk on this fine day, through the forest. Weighing 4,380kg, Makizama was a proud adult elephant, rippling its muscles as it glided (more like stomped) through the forest. It was health conscious and quite the vain pot. The walk, usually long walks, with short bursts of sprint, dash-like runs at times; were meant to keep him in shape.

On this day, Makizama took a different route, one that it had not used before. From a distance, Ropey and Constantinople felt the ground move. “Thump, thump, thump”; at times “tha-ta-thump, tha-ta-thump” was the rhythm the ground was moving. They noticed this huge, monstrous, beast approaching them.

Ropey, being the sly fox…er…rope that it was; thought up of a plan and coerced Constantinople to go along with it. Ropey announced to all the living creatures around that he was going to capture this huge beast and hold it captive.

Before long Makizama reached and saw Ropey and Constantinople. They introduced themselves to each other. Makizama was full of confidence, proud of his physique and general knowledge of the forest, through his daily exercise.

Ropey said to Makizama, “Anyone that I wrap myself around will get completely rested, fast. Do you want a good rest, Makizama?”

Makizama thought this was a good deal, and agreed.

Ropey wrapped itself around the hind leg of Makizama. As soon as it wrapped itself around the leg of the elephant, did it mention that Makizama would lose all his strength and physique if he decided to break loose from Ropey, the rope; on his own.

Minutes went by, soon days, too went by, turning into weeks. By this time, Ropey had convinced Makizama that it could not even break free, even if he wanted to. That it, Ropey the rope; had magical powers that even Makizama could not match in strength.

Ropey was quite the trickster, using its intelligence to outsmart Makizama. Often it tricks and manipulates visitors of the forest that go by, for payment and reward.
Constantinople, with no ambition, is usually stuck in one place, no goals or plans, often leaving decision making to others, Artificial Intelligence (A. I.) or ChatGBT. It feels “safe” around Ropey because Ropey makes the decisions, and it, Constantinople; just abides. Rightly or wrongly, he won’t know for sure.
Makizama, though keeping abreast with everything modern; can be easily misled, more of a herd follower. It lacks confidence.

The rope and wooden peg are so small and weak that the elephant can easily break free from it. But it does not see that, and hence is tied to the small wooden peg.

How many of us see ourselves in one or more of the characters above?
How many of us are out-maneuvered by characters like Ropey? Have we been tricked? Or have we willingly passed the baton of thinking for ourselves to others? Then, find that we can’t move like Constantinople. Now, find that our situation seems bleak.

We have to always believe that there is a “tomorrow” and work towards regaining our self-composure…our freedom….Whatever the situation may be.
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It was in the wee hours of this morning that I wrote this essay. Completed it about 5.15am. Just thought it up.