As I was doing a short (as in distance, not height) walk this morning, I passed by some of my neighbours who were chatting with each other.
“Wah! So leng chai”, they remarked when seeing me with my new hair colour.
“Like Hong Kong…” one lady was saying as I interrupted, “movie star”, I said.
“No lah!”, she exclaimed. “Like the Hong Kong chee chong fun seller in Court 2”, she said.
The other lady said, “Before, like one of the singers from BPS group”.
I corrected her, “You mean BTS, the Korean singing group”.
“What BTS? BPS you know” she said, sounding slightly irritated. “Batu Pahat* Seniors group”, she said.
“Oh….Okay”, I laughed and nodded, understanding.
Then, she shows me her smartphone (Known as “cell phones in some countries. But, here in Malaysia, they are known as smartphones. If you try to argue, people will give you the “Don’t try to give me the lip”).
She said that she could hardly read the time on it. When I saw the screen of her phone, smartphone that is; “10.17am” in big bold digits.
I bade them a good day and continued on my short distance walk. Judith, my other neighbour living down Road B, said that I now look orang putih. I laughed😂….must be because of my name😁.
The first few…er many moments, minutes of being 68 years young, has been great.
The morning started with an early breakfast with family – Jeannie and Laura. Though there are multiple, more like many multiple restaurants in that area in Shah Alam; Yau Yat Khan is one of the busiest for breakfast.
Then, I went for a short walk, following that, replying to the hundreds of birthday wishes from people on social media. and the smartphone…family…friends…my book fans…people I have not met…yet.
As I write this article, I am thankful for the last 68 years. During the younger days of my siblings and cousins on my father’s side, my late Grandfather, Charles Atkinson used to sayon each of his birthdays, “Completed the year, now moving into my next”. This means that I have completed my 68th year and now am into my 69th.
I look at the future, which is the next moment forward, with awe, fascination and excitement. I don’t have too clear of an idea of what lies ahead…mysterious…journey into the unknown…yet. I intend to plot the course as I go along.
What I do know is that I have an amazing family – my wife, Jeannie; my daughter, Laura and her husband, Praga; Dad and mums (including Mum Ong, my mother-in-law), siblings and their families; uncles, aunts and their families, my La Salle School mates that go way back from primary school and the teachers and the other wonderful people, too; that make each day complete. My dear friend, Keith Ganesan, who is in Tokyo this morning, sent me a message saying that we must meet for a cigar when he is back. I replied, “That’s an absolute Will Do”.
I take this opportunity to thank everyone for all their kind wishes, thoughts and remembering this day.
Life is an amazing beauty in itself. Living it is taking it to the next level.
NOTES:
1. “wah” and “lah” are some of the expressions unique to Malaysia and this part of the world. If you are not from Malaysia; come and experience this unique living experience. The lives of Malaysians are centred around the food table. Anytime is a good time to eat. Before long, you’ll be wah-ing and lah-ing away, merrily.
2. *Batu Pahat isa town in the southern state of Peninsular Malaysia
